"Let us dare to read, think, speak and write." - John Adams, 1765

12.17.2006

christmas hiatus

I've been thinking about something lately, something that's been tugging at my shirt hem for a couple of months or so.....I think I need to take a break from blogging, e-mailing, and internet surfing in general. Now don't get me wrong - I love writing, and blogging, and keeping up with friends, but it's become apparent to me in past weeks that I've been spending too much time online, and not enough with a) God, b) myself, and c) the quality kind with my family. To be honest, I've been sacrificing rest, some meaningful time with my daughter and husband, a lot of much needed conversation with my Lord, and a few low-tech activites I used to enjoy. A friend of mine has had the same realization (see the "Walk Slowly, Live Wildly" blog link to the right), and I think we're not the only two! So I think 'til I get back from our Christmas vacation, my blog's going to get a little dusty.

Hope you understand! So for those of you whom I won't see over Christmas, have a happy one, filled with the simpler pleasures, childlike wonder, and the love of the King. See y'all soon!

12.13.2006

par-tay

We were invited to a Christmas party recently, hosted by our friends, the Perrys. Now I love a party, especially a Christmas one.....and this one was the best we've ever been to. Elegant but unpretentious, we met the most interesting, creative folks and ate some seriously scrumptious food (who knew Nate Perry was such a chef?!). We also exchanged hand-made gifts, and I scored some retro-modern placemats and cloth napkins from Cheryl (a mom and calligrapher and apparently very handy with the sewing machine!). I did a small painting for the Perrys - which was significant for me, since it was Alicia who's been encouraging me to let loose the artistic juice this year. It was such a good time, that I'm posting some photos (taken by the lovely Daphne) of the evening. Made us miss our hometown, and our friends (old and new) there. We love you guys. All of ya.


mingling over appetizers


Daphne's citrus-fennel salad


who invited Pete Ricketts? (that's for all you Nebraskans out there)


the hosts with the mosts


Michael, Ali, and Alicia


Nate's apple tart


Daphne, Ali and me


us'ns

12.11.2006

holiday hits

So, what are your favorite shameless holiday songs? I've been listening to the "Sounds of the Season" channel almost non-stop today (I'm a Christmas nerd), and here are a few of mine:

- "I Saw Three Ships", Sting
- "All I Want For Christmas Is You", Mariah Carey
- any Christmas song the Jackson 5 happen to be singing
- "Silent Night", Mannheim Steamroller
- "Baby, It's Cold Outside", Dean Martin
- "Sleighride", Dave Koz
- "Step Into Christmas", Elton John
- anything the Trans-Siberian Orchestra is rockin'
- "Buon Natale", Nat King Cole
- "Mele Kalikimaka", Jimmy Buffet
- "Bring A Torch, Janette, Isabella", Mannheim Steamroller
- "Santa Baby", Eartha Kitt
- "Wassail, Wassail", Mannheim Steamroller (can you tell what I listened to growing up?)
- the soundtrack to "A Christmas Carol" - the one starring George C. Scott

Now, I don't want to hear about your favorite rendition of "O Holy Night". Nay. I wanna hear about the songs that you'd be embarrassed to admit you belt out in the shower on Christmas Eve. Bring it.

12.08.2006

that little drumming boy

So I was running some errand the other day, and was feeling extra festive, so I tuned the radio to the Christmas music station. All of a sudden, "Little Drummer Boy" comes on....now I'm not a big fan of the song (probably has something to do with all the "rum-pum-pum-pums"), but it was the Bob Seger version, from "A Very Special Christmas", circa 1987. Ahh. Something in Seger's straining voice made me believe he was the poor boy at the manger, so moved by the baby King laying before him that he gives the best and only gift he can - some mad licks on the drums. When Seger got to the "I'll play my best for Him, pah-rum-pum-pum-pum", I teared up. And at the same time, was thinking "What the...?!" Michael and I have a saying when we get choked up - "it got me". I think I was thinking about how I don't really give Him my best all the time, or much lately, and that darn little drumming boy convicted me. He got me. All I wanted to be in that moment was a little girl standing before that manger, giving my heart to Him - my best and only gift. Pretty deep for a silly little song, eh? God really does have a funny way of getting my attention. So there I am, driving across town, Rhys in the back seat, wiping tears from my eyes, Bob and I and belting out "PAH RUM PUM PUM PUMMMM!" with all our might. Whew, boy. (I hope you're chuckling, because I sure am!) In that moment, the words of "Little Dummer Boy" made it to my heart. Don't know if that will happen ever again, so thanks, God, for speaking to me like only You can.....and thank YOU, Bob Seger. Bravo, twenty years late.

stuck in a christmas rut?

Getting tired of making trips to the mall, or watching the Grinch for the nth time? I found these great suggestions for cheap/free holiday fun. Check them out:

1. Watch a Christmas movie or holiday show on television. Tape them and watch them on YOUR time, and if you have kids, make it a family event, not just an afternoon babysitter. After all, you watched some of these same shows when you (and your parents) were kids! I'm a huge fan of the classic holiday shows/movies, so you just e-mail me if you need some help with that one.

2. Go see the Christmas lights in the neighborhoods in your pajamas. (BONUS: bring along your favorite hot beverage and tune your radio to the Christmas music station)

3. Drink a mug of hot cocoa under your Christmas tree...if you can fit under there. I'd settle for sitting beside it.

4. Read the Christmas story from the Bible. I also heard (but have yet to get) of a book called "Watch For The Light: Readings for Advent and Christmas" that will really get you thinking in different ways about the significance of the birth of Jesus. Readings from people like C.S. Lewis, T.S. Eliot, Sylvia Plath, and Henry Nouwen. Not so much for the kiddies, but good for adult contemplation!

5. Open one gift early. Hellur, this might be the most fun idea I have on here!

6. Bake cookies and take a plate to the firefighters. See if you can get a tour. Or just sneak past them and try to slide down the pole (make sure somebody has a camcorder to record this for posterity).

7. Write a letter to Santa to leave on Christmas Eve. If you're the Santa-believing type.

8. Make a snowman. Make one every time it snows! Make one for every member of your family!

9. Make a snow angel. Just not in your underwear.

10. Pop popcorn and play a board game together, Christmas music optional.

11. Go to the dollar theatre and see a movie. Sneak in a snack, if you dare (actually, we asked once and most theaters don't care if you bring your own, just don't advertise it).

12. Go to the library and pick out books about Christmas. Read them together.

13. Give the kids a bath while Christmas carols blare into the bathroom. See who can sing the loudest. This is especially great for me when I've had a bad day - I can holler without hurting anyone's feelings! Best song to do this with: O Holy Night. Trust me, try it.

14. Get or make stocking stuffers for Dad. (or anyone else...but since dads usually get crap gifts, do it for Dad.)

15. Write a note to each member in the family to tell them how special they are and what you love about them. Leave them in their stockings.

16. Draw a holiday picture and send it to a relative. Try sending one to the craziest relative you haven't seen in a long time. It'll either freak 'em out or warm their heart.

17. Take a tour of lights in another neighborhood. (HINT: wealthy ones don't necessarily have the best displays!) Pop popcorn to take with you and blast Christmas carols in the car. Best album for blasting: Trans-Siberan Orchestra, "The Lost Christmas". When Andrew W. K. comes out with a Christmas album, then that one will be the best. But we're still waiting.

18. Make an ornament together for the tree. Try to incorporate a picture of your child and have them choose the decorating. Write the year on the back and try to add one of these each year.

19. Bake cookies for yourselves. Eat them all, alternating a Tums every two cookies. Nobody wants indigestion this time of year!

20. Start a holiday memory book. Quote your child and ask them what their favorite thing they had done (so far) was for the holidays. Record what they asked for for Christmas. Take a picture of them on Christmas morning. Or do it all with a camcorder.

21. Print out a holiday coloring page and color it. If you are over the age of 10 and doing this, expect stares. Unless you're going to send it to that crazy relative of yours.

22. Make Christmas Crackers to put in each stocking. Take tissue paper and cover each toilet paper roll with it. Take ribbon and tie to close one end of the roll. Fill it with candies and confetti (if you wish). Tie the other end with ribbon and place these in each family member’s stocking. To make them extra special, have your child write a note to each family member and tuck them inside.

23. Go to the library and pick out a movie to watch together as a family. Make homemade pizza and curl up together on the couch. I've got an easy and tasty pizza dough recipe, so if you need one, e-mail me. Your pizza will be done faster than delivery on a Monday night.

24. Put together a box of items to donate and if you have a child, take your child with you to donate them. Ask them if they would like to contribute something that they have outgrown. Or be sneaky, like my husband, and just donate it for them. Warning: this might not go over so well. So do it at night. (I hope you can sense the sarcasm here!)

25. Serve together at a nursing home, homeless or women's shelter. Teach your children by example the importance of humility and service to their fellow man. There's hardly a child too young to participate - even a toddler's smile will light up a lonely or hurting heart.

26. Research the different Christmas traditions and talk about what they are supposed to represent, and how they can be meaningful to you.

OK, there's a start...go do one or a few with family or friends and enjoy yourself, for crying out loud!